(Washington, DC - Jonathan Wilson, WAMU) Millions of Americans are hitting the highways for the Thanksgiving holiday, and on the East Coast, many motorists hoping to get anywhere hop on I-95.

Overlooking some of the busiest traffic in the region — if not the nation — is a landmark, one whose creators hope may give drivers a little peace even if the traffic threatens their sanity.

Instead of looming over drivers from its hillside perch, it simply seems to be watching. But Father Michael Murray says  it’s unmistakable.

“It is a visual, even if people don’t know the history or the significance of it, or the background behind it. Anyone who travels this part of the interstate network with any frequency knows exactly where this is,” he says.

Murray, the Superior of the Oblates of Saint Francis de Sales,  is referring to the 12-foot statue of the Virgin Mary that faces northbound traffic on I-95 in Childs, Maryland. Black letters mounted on a low brick wall beneath the statue proclaim her “Our Lady of the Highways.”

Most people who pass the statue have no idea who the Oblates of Saint Francis de Sales – a Catholic, apostolic order, dedicated to education – are. Father Murray says that’s okay.

“Friends of mine – like in Northern Virginia and D.C. – they say, now where is that again?” Murray says. ”And I say if you’re driving on I-95, just before you hit the last exit in Maryland — and they usually stop me and say, ‘Oh, is it the place with the statue?’ And I say, ‘Said same.’”

But the statue that’s become such a recognizable landmark isn’t the first to sit on this hillside. Brother John Dochkus remembers the original erected in 1971.

“It was five feet tall, made of cement, and it did not hold up very well in the Maryland winters with the rain and the weather,” he says.

The motivation behind the shrine’s construction occurred three years earlier, in October of 1968.

Back then, the interstate was just a few years old. In the early morning hours of October 2, there was a 17-car collision which killed three people. Oblates on this campus ran down to the highway to help. Brother Dochkus says poor visibility was likely to blame.

“This area, a fog used to settle over it, because a paper mill that was in the area. It used to change the temperature of the creek that runs through here, and it would form a fog,” Dochkus recalls.

The memory of that day lives on with the statue. The Oblates replaced the original in 1986 with the 12- foot, Vermont carrara marble figure so many drivers recognize today.

Though that paper mill and the fog it spawned are now gone, Dochkus fears certain aspects of travel on the nation’s roads have gotten worse.

“We’ve lost a great civility towards each other in driving,” he says. ”If you don’t put your foot on that gas pedal in a nanosecond, someone’s yelling at you, someone’s honking their horn.”

Father Murray says he hopes motorists driving past “Our Lady of the Highways” can cast a glance toward her and remember to be calm — no matter how fast, or slow, the traffic is moving that day.

“You know, your hands are burning through the steering wheel, but maybe just looking at the statue of the Blessed Mother just reminds you, ‘Well, you know, as frustrating as this is, and as important as it was for me to get to where I hoped to go two hours ago – there’s a bigger picture,’” Murray says.

Brother Dochkus says you don’t have to be Catholic to get the message the statue is sending.

“It’s a reminder to be a bit more kind, a bit more humane, Christian – if that’s your belief,” he says. ”Whatever your belief is, to remind yourself within that belief to be a little kinder, a bit more civil and a bit more courteous on the road.”

And let’s face it: on some days it seems like bringing just a little civility to the roads would take a miracle.

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